Drama! Drama! Drama! And it's not my own. My friend Sandy called me crying on the phone, to the point I could barely understand her. When I finally realized who it was I tried to calm her down. When she finally calmed down she began to tell me her problems. Her sister had a baby by this Loser and she moved it with the Loser and his mom and her boyfriend, basically it was 8 peoople and 2 dogs in a 3 bedroom house. The sister never got along with the mother, they always argued and so on. Anyway, it was the sister responsibility to pay the gas bill, her being 20 and a little irresponsible she forgot and they got a shut off notice. The mom got mad and they got into a bad arguement. The Loser tried to come in between them and one thing lead to another and the sister got best down by the mother and the Loser. Did I mention in front of her child. So Sandy called me (cause I have a car) so we could go and pick her and the baby up. Me being the sweet and angelic soul that I am did it. We took her to a shelter and got her and the baby checked in and everything. The program promises to help her find a job and a house within 2 months. Great program. Problem; her dumb ass called him and he came and picked her and the baby up and took them back to the house. *insert blank stare* FOR WHY? Sandy was so upset when she found out she said to hell with her if that is the life she want for her and her baby then so be it. 2 days later she called Sandy and told her that he fucked her up again this time worst than before she had to go to the hospital and now he won't give the baby back. To make a long story short now she is running around like she don't even want to get the baby back. Bouncing from house to house and hanging and partying smoking cigarettes. She just gone wild. My heart goes out to Sandy cause she is so stressed out trying to help someone who doesn't want help right now. Her sister even called me and tried to ask me for help but I had to turn her down cause she is still on that other shit. I helped her once and she turned and did the same thing I can't do it again.
Am I wrong for not wanting to get involved for the 2nd time?
I just wish she WAKE UP and get her self together.
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Girl you know the answers to these questions! LOL
All I am going to say is that there are plenty of people willing and waiting to adopt children, esp. babies....
wow... I dont think your wrong at all. We are to help but be used.
u are not wrong at all!!!! why stress urself out trying to help those that dont even want to help themselves??? i stopped doing that a long time ago!
HELL NO ur not wrong. Some ppl must learn the hard way and in these situation it is very hard to allow them to do that b/c u cant understand who in their right mind would put up with this BS. Pray for her, thats all u an do.
Girl sometimes you gotta let folks learn on their own. As her friend you're not wrong for being there for her but she knows what she needs to do for herself and for her child...get it together boo...not you LOL..her.
U aint wrong at all u cant help ppl that dont wanna be helped. U cant save em all. She knows somebody gonna bail her out. I feel so bad for the child and the baby daddy only doing what she allow him to do so sad *smh
@all... thanks for your comments, they were all very helpful. Now she is back with her sister. She finally went and got the baby. Now she is looking for a job and she claimed she learned her lesson but time will tell.
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