Why is it when you are trying to mind your own business someone always bother you, and make you part of their problem? Yesterday I was at home trying to get some rest, when my phone ranged. I looked at the caller ID and it was Babydaddy. Now a part of me said Lady don't answer the phone, but another part of me (the curious part) said pick it up. Needless to say I answered the phone he started off by asking me how I was doing and was everything ok. I automatically thought that was strange, so I said everything is everything what can I do for you. That's when he began We broke up. I said what do you mean you broke up. He said Me and Kelly we finally broke up. Now keep in mind this is the girl he cheated on me to be with. So I should care why? So I tried to hide the I don't give a fuck in my voice and asked what happened? He said he could not take the verbal abuse anymore. I felt kind of bad for him because I had knew should was verbally abusing him but had no idea to what degree. He went on to explain how bad it was and believe me it was bad. Then he asked me for my advice and I just simply told him you are better off without her cause she never respected you as a man anyway. If you love someone you don't try to tear them down mentally you would think she would want to build him up. Of course it is 3 sides to every story, but the one that I heard I didn't like it one bit. I hate the fact that he called me of all people to tell about his mishap, but now I feel bad for him and angry that she did that to him. Regardless to how I feel I am gonna still keep my guard up cause I don't want him to think he can get some rebound ass from me. He asked me can he come over when I get out of school today I told him yeah but little do he know I am gonna be sleep while he is there. So I hope he enjoy my small DVD collection or bring his own movies to watch to keep him company. Cause I am not going for his bullshit I don't want her sloppy leftovers especially if he is acting all weak and feeling sorry for himself like I think he is. Gotta go!!!
Do you think I handled the situation right or could have done better?
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I am curious into why you letting him come by the crib when you not gonna be in the room with him. He can watch movies at his own place. In that situation I think I would have said no that he couldn't come over or if I said yeah I would do the whole friend thing and tell him to bounce! I mean come on, you think he gonna let you sleep????
All and all sorry to hear about a man being abused. You don't read or hear about that too often.
@Lady... Well I have to work tonight and when I get home from school I try and get those precious 4 hours of sleep so I can go to work. If he is there I can't sit up with him and hold his hand and let him cry on my sholder. Trust me he will let me sleep or he already know he can see himself out. So do you think
I should tell him to come by some other time?
My 2 cents says yes, esp. since you need your sleep and he needs to vent.
You shouldn't let him come over. Sorry that he was verbally abused but whats that got to do with you..I mean he don't have to be around you to get over it. I say tell him to stay home that way he knows that he can't get nothing from you even if it's by accident.
Since when has a woman being sleep, trying to sleep, or even pretending to sleep stop a man from trying to squeeze in where he can get in? Don't know the whole story and history but there seems to be some mixed signals going on.
It was nice of you to listen to him and even support him but wasn't and hasn't he been trying to creep up into your bed for a minute? Inviting him over might not be such a wise choice. Based on your past it seems like he might interpret that as an invitation for something else.
i think u did fine w/ the convo... i dont think i woulda let him come over though... for what? but there's nothing wrong w/ being a friend to someone in need....
hmmmmmmmmmmmm.I think the convo was cool. But I agree with everyone else, maybe you could invite him over another time.
@all... The majority wins I just called him and told him that I will be busy when I get home and for him to call me tomorrow and see if he can come over and vent or what ever it is that he wants to talk about. It took me a second to think about it and we do really need to talk. I don't want him to think he can try to sex me or anything of that nature. Let's not forget that she is the one he crept out on me with. Just that fact alone makes me HOTTER THAN HELL!!! For that reason and a few more I rather not talk about right now I have a strong resentment towards him.
You were nice, I would been like "WHO THE HELL FUCKING CARES THAT YOU'VE BROKEN UP WITH THE CUNTMUFFIN YOU CHEATED ON ME WITH?
WHO CARES MOTHERFUCKER???"
But you were kind.
Don't let any accidents happen though. I don't wanna read about you "accidentally" fucking him or anything like that.
;-)
@mistress... oh don't worry you will not read about that. My mom said I should not have been so nice to him either. So I decided to just say the hell with him. I don't want my pity for him to try and turn into something else, knowing how much he hurt me in the past. He's about to be cut off.
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