Confused

I feel kind of bad today. My friend went and got an abortion over the weekend, when I talked to her on Thursday she said she wasn't sure. SO I left it at that no thinking she would really do it then she comes to work and tell me she got the procedure done. I personally don't believe in them but I don't judge anyone who feels they have no choice in getting them. For some strange reason I feel I should have said something to her but what? Maybe I feel this way cause this is her 3rd one that I know of. I don't want her to keep doing that to her body, but who am I?

Weekend Events

Friday was not very eventful for me, after I got off of work I went to the bank paid what needed to be paid and I came home and went to sleep. When I woke up I took Babygirl to get her hair done. Then my car started to act up. I tried to turn my car off and the damn thang would not cut off I then drove around for 1hour trying to find someone to shut the damn thing off. I finally came across my mechanic and he told me how to do it, I have to go under the hood and unplug a wire then unplug the battery. Ain't that a bitch!!! So until I can get that fixed I have to do that everytime I want to shut the damn thing off. Hopefully Friday I will be able to get my car fixed.

Saturday we had a blast at mom's party. Everyone showed up all of my moms kids were there and her grandkids and nieces and nephews. When we song happy b-day she almost cried, it was such a beautiful moment. Not to mention the cake was so cute. My sister decided to put 999 on there, which represented her birthday. Everybody thought that was funny especially my mom. The party started at 5 and it ended around 11 so afterwards Babygirl and I dipped out and went over to her dad's house. He wanted to watch movies like a little family so I said ok. While he and Babygirl sat and watched movies I caught up on my zzzz's. When I woke up he was sleep and Babygirl was ready to go so we could watch our own movies. So we left around 1am, he wanted us to spend the night but I said hell no I gotta go. So we left. I did homework and house work all day Sunday. So that was my weekend.

Party Time

Today is my mom's Birthday and she turns 65 years old or young as she likes to say. We're throwing her a party Sat, it's gonna be huge cake, ice cream, plus a huge dinner that my sister is preparing. Not to mention all our friends and family and music. My mom does not drink or smoke so it will be a kid friendly party. I took off Friday for the special event just so I can be ready. I hope all is well with you in blog world enjoy ur weekend and I will get back to ya on Monday. Have a safe and wonderful weekend.

Grading System

I know I have been in school long enough to know a proper grading system. Well I ran into a problem with the way my teacher grade her papers. Let me give you an example, you have a class assignment, homework, test, quiz, midterm, and final. You should not get the same percentage for all those assignments. That is the way she grades she gave 100% for each assignment. I've been in classes where, you get 50%for class assignments and 20% for homework and 100% for test and 100% for quiz and 150% for midterm and 200 for final. Those are just examples I think she is smoking dope. We got into the biggest diagreement. How can you give the same percentage for every assignment? She end up giving me a B+ I could have slapped the shit out of her.

Tell me what you think is her grading system proper or not?

It's Almost Over

I am so happy to inform everyone that it is almost over. I have come a long way and sacrificed so much and I am happy with the outcome. I have a couple of more test to take and a few more things I have to complete. Anyway I still have a lot of work to do, that is why I have not had a chance to write in my blog. I missed you all so much. I gotta go I have 6 more typing assignments to do. I will blog you later. Miss yall!!!

TGIF

Last night I had the worst customer that I have ever experienced. He was so rude and mean and just down right evil. But me being the professional that I am, I handled the situation very well. The meaner and nastier he got the more my professionalism kicked in. I even called my supervisor to come and get that man away from me, but he was no help. Finally I got him to leave. I haven't had a pop in 1 day I know it's not a real big accomplishment but for me that is doing hell of a good. Today we are watching a movie The Pursuit of Happiness so I gotta go. Don't have to work this weekend and so I am gonna get some much needed rest. Have a great weekend and enjoy Dr. King bday. Blog u later!

Irritating Day

Ten things that irritate me this week.

1. My precious boots were thrown in the garbage.
2. I went to the gas station to get a pop and a 24oz. Faygo pop is $.99. That shit is rediculous.
3. My teacher gave us no work today. So I am sitting here thinking about all the other shit I could be doing.
4. The girl with the fat roll still has that damn thing hanging out.
5. My supervisor keeps trying to catch me doing anything that is not in my job discription.
6. My baby daddy started talking back to that bitch.
7. This girl keep looking back at my screen.
8. I have a transcription test to take today and it is long.
9. I can't stop drinking pop.
10. I need an oil change and don't have the time to get one.

These things that I am complaining about is minor compared to all the things that I have to be thanful for. Even though the good out weigh the bad sometimes I just like to vent. Other wise I am having a good day.

Someone Pat Me On The Back

My arms are to short. I feel good despite a few bumps in the road. Do you want the good news or bad news first? Ok the majority rules bad news first. I failed one of my quizes and I got a low score of a 68%on one of my test. I almost cried, when my teacher handed it back I look at the mistakes and realized that I could not have been in my right mind when I took both of these exams. As looked at it I realized that I knew damn near every answer on the fucking page except for maybe 2 and I had pretty good guesses on those. Now I am sure I need to get more rest. I can't believe I did something that damn stupid. Thank God I get good grades normally so it won't affect my grade all that much. Any who the interview went well and I am happy about that I got my cite I will be working at and I found out that I am getting paid for it. God is good. Not to mention I went home and got some sleep and over slept for work. I woke up at 11:00 and I suppose to be there at 11:00 so I got there at 12:00.

Gotta go. happy hump day!!!

Stressful Day

My day has been so stressful and not to mention I am dirt tired. I had a externship interview to go on today and I could not afford to be late. I got off of work at 7:30 got home by 7:48 cause traffic was kind of heavy. Took a quick shower and mom did my hair, and I got dressed. I began to look for my matching boots to my outfit. That's when I discovered they were missing I literally tore up everything in my house and nothing came up. I remembered Babygirl and I cleaned up for the New Year so I called her school and asked her where are my brown boots and she said I put them in the bag that went to the trash. OH MY GOD!!! I almost had a heart attack. I was so fucking angry, but with the cutest and sofest and concerned voice she asked Mommy did I do something wrong. I thought you said throw that bag in the trash. I was angry at the same time I felt sorry for her cause she began to cry and kept apologizing over and over again. I had to calm her down and I told her to go and wash her face and go back to class and don't worry about it. She asked me again and I assured her that she was not in trouble but it was 9:30 and the interview was at 10:00. I put my all black shoes on and rushed out of the house. I felt so bad in a way cause my poor baby just melted like puddy, but at the same time she was wrong. Well actually she misunderstood. That's what started the stress. I haven't had sleep in almost 30 hours. I got 2 hours of school left I can't wait to go home and get some rest. Gotta go I have a stupid typing test to take. Blog you later.

Wake Up!

Drama! Drama! Drama! And it's not my own. My friend Sandy called me crying on the phone, to the point I could barely understand her. When I finally realized who it was I tried to calm her down. When she finally calmed down she began to tell me her problems. Her sister had a baby by this Loser and she moved it with the Loser and his mom and her boyfriend, basically it was 8 peoople and 2 dogs in a 3 bedroom house. The sister never got along with the mother, they always argued and so on. Anyway, it was the sister responsibility to pay the gas bill, her being 20 and a little irresponsible she forgot and they got a shut off notice. The mom got mad and they got into a bad arguement. The Loser tried to come in between them and one thing lead to another and the sister got best down by the mother and the Loser. Did I mention in front of her child. So Sandy called me (cause I have a car) so we could go and pick her and the baby up. Me being the sweet and angelic soul that I am did it. We took her to a shelter and got her and the baby checked in and everything. The program promises to help her find a job and a house within 2 months. Great program. Problem; her dumb ass called him and he came and picked her and the baby up and took them back to the house. *insert blank stare* FOR WHY? Sandy was so upset when she found out she said to hell with her if that is the life she want for her and her baby then so be it. 2 days later she called Sandy and told her that he fucked her up again this time worst than before she had to go to the hospital and now he won't give the baby back. To make a long story short now she is running around like she don't even want to get the baby back. Bouncing from house to house and hanging and partying smoking cigarettes. She just gone wild. My heart goes out to Sandy cause she is so stressed out trying to help someone who doesn't want help right now. Her sister even called me and tried to ask me for help but I had to turn her down cause she is still on that other shit. I helped her once and she turned and did the same thing I can't do it again.

Am I wrong for not wanting to get involved for the 2nd time?

I just wish she WAKE UP and get her self together.

Why Did I Pick Up the Phone!

Why is it when you are trying to mind your own business someone always bother you, and make you part of their problem? Yesterday I was at home trying to get some rest, when my phone ranged. I looked at the caller ID and it was Babydaddy. Now a part of me said Lady don't answer the phone, but another part of me (the curious part) said pick it up. Needless to say I answered the phone he started off by asking me how I was doing and was everything ok. I automatically thought that was strange, so I said everything is everything what can I do for you. That's when he began We broke up. I said what do you mean you broke up. He said Me and Kelly we finally broke up. Now keep in mind this is the girl he cheated on me to be with. So I should care why? So I tried to hide the I don't give a fuck in my voice and asked what happened? He said he could not take the verbal abuse anymore. I felt kind of bad for him because I had knew should was verbally abusing him but had no idea to what degree. He went on to explain how bad it was and believe me it was bad. Then he asked me for my advice and I just simply told him you are better off without her cause she never respected you as a man anyway. If you love someone you don't try to tear them down mentally you would think she would want to build him up. Of course it is 3 sides to every story, but the one that I heard I didn't like it one bit. I hate the fact that he called me of all people to tell about his mishap, but now I feel bad for him and angry that she did that to him. Regardless to how I feel I am gonna still keep my guard up cause I don't want him to think he can get some rebound ass from me. He asked me can he come over when I get out of school today I told him yeah but little do he know I am gonna be sleep while he is there. So I hope he enjoy my small DVD collection or bring his own movies to watch to keep him company. Cause I am not going for his bullshit I don't want her sloppy leftovers especially if he is acting all weak and feeling sorry for himself like I think he is. Gotta go!!!

Do you think I handled the situation right or could have done better?

Happy New Year

This year I decicded not to make a New Year's Resolution. I usually make one every year just to mess it up around feb or mar. So I didn't even bother. My past two weeks has been very boring I didnt' do anything interesting except get drunk on New Year's by my self. (stupid desicion) Then had to turn around and go to work. I almost got into a bad accident on the freeway, I hit a puddle and it shot me all the way across the lanes of the freeway. Boy was that scary. I spent Christmas with my daughter and her father side of the family. We had fun then I went to my peoples house and had a great time over there. I wish I had more time to blog but got to go, class is about to start.