Today in class after we finished out assignment we started sufing the net about sex offenders. I was getting ready to call my friend Red and tell him I seen him on the sex offenders list. I know it was a cruel joke but it would have been funny. I know he would not have believed me but still to just pass the time. Baby Daddy called me yesterday telling me he had a dream about me and he wanted to come over. So I told him when I get back I will call him and maybe he can come by. Well he called me and I was gonna tell him to come by and leave before he got there, but instead I told him no thank you and why is he cheating on his girlfriend. Then he went on to tell me that she be trippin and she this and that I was so not interested in what she was doing. I told him if he feels that way then he need to leave her alone and find someone else. He didn't want to hear nothing I had to say, so he ended the conversation.
My bestfriend called me and she was very upset. I asked her why and she began to tell me that she found out that her mom was gay, complete with long time girlfriend and she never knew. I asked how long have she been that way she told me for the last 15 years. I said Damn she hid that well. Cause when we were in high school I use to hang out at her house and her mom was just regular mom who fussed at us, made us do our homework, gave us curfews, and use to take us to school dances. I was also very shocked to hear the information. I thought about it if it was my mom I would probably be on some Dr's couch talking about when I was a kid how she use to bake me cookies before she went to work. On the flip side she really can't get mad cause her mom raised her and her 4 brothers so it her time and if she chooses to spend the rest of her life that way then so be it. Maybe thru out the years she had been giving out clues like the time she cut off all her hair and got brush waves which she still wears today. I just thought she got tired of long hair. Any way I tried calling her but she turned off her phone, I guess she don't feel like talking to no one right now. I'll call her later. My heart goes out to her.
What would you do if you found out one of your parents were gay?
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knowing me, If I found out one of my parents were gay, I would definitely have to go toa professional. I think 15 years is a long time and I would feel betrayed because they would be leading a double life. I would love em cause they my parents and I know they were not always pleased with my choices.
@deep... all this time she thought her mom was single she never brought anyone around so everyone just thought oh well she is single. I agree with you I would love em anyway.
That would have been mean to tell him to come over then leave b4 he got there.
At first I would be surprized because mom has had some male friends in the past.
My only question for you is about this statement:
"I use to hang out at her house and her mom was just regular mom who fussed at us, made us do our homework, gave us curfews, and use to take us to school dances."
The way it read it was like lesbian women couldn't be regular mothers. If she didn't talk about her sex life with you all when she was with men why would she discuss it being with women?
Iono, just the question that came to mind.
@ladynay... Don't get me wrong I am not discriminating on gay ppl. when I made that comment I was just trying to give an example of how like a normal soccer mom she was and like nothing bothered her or shall I say how well she hid it.
Are you starting trouble? lol
Not trying to start trouble, honest. It just read to me as if people who do other things are supposed to live different than June Cleaver, that's all. That's why I asked the question. Just to understand what you are stating.
Couldn't care less if it was my father. I might ask him if I could have my stepmom's phone number because apparently he is or was a bit of playa. I'd have a problem if it was mom. Fifteen years is a long time to lie someone and since I already have trust issues it would probably destroy any trust I had in women as a whole.
Yeah, it did kind of sound like you were saying lesbos couldn't be soccer mom's or that they all like to bald headed and wear flannel vests and white tees with a tattoo that says "MOM" on their arm. I know that's not what you meant though.
@lady... thankyou for understanding I am not being at all mean to Gay ppl some of my best friends are gay.
@Freaky... Thank you for understanding my statement.
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