Thursday, December 21, 2006

Good Day

Today I am having such a good day. It feels like a dream and I don't want to wake. Even though the weather is crappy I will survive. I have been sick for the past week, I think it was the flu. My whole body hurted, felt like I took a body shot from a train and wrecked the train. I had to send Babaygirl over her dad's house so she would not catch my germs. She called and checked on me everyday, telling me how she should be there taking good care of me. That little girl is so sweet. My friend at work got some bad news the other day she found out that her 13 year old girl was pregnant. She was totally devastated and she needed a shoulder to cry on so I was there for her, I just didn't get to close (cause of my cold). She has been so upset that she keeps drinking. I tried to tell her that drinking is not gonna make that baby go away. So she sobered up and came to the conclusion that she didn't want any grandkids running around so she is taking the girl to get it terminated. My heart gose out to both mother and child cause I was once that scared little child with a life growing inside of me. I just hope and pray Idont' have to go thru any thing like that with my baby. SO far so good. Well I got to get to class blog you later.

7 comments:

Freaky Deaky said...

Have you had the "talk" with Babygirl yet? If they're not already the little and not so little boys will be sniffing around her soon.

Pregnancy is one of the things that would terrify me about having a girl. There's a saying that boys take their problems elsewhere and girls bring their problems home. I can't imagine the disappointment, anger, and shock the mom must feel let alone how a 13 year would even process it.

Since the mom is taking the daughter to terminate the pregnancy is it safe to assume that the daughter has agreed? If she doesn't things could get messy.

Ladynay said...

Glad your feeling better.

Your daughter sounds like a sweetie! Calling home everyday to make sure mommy was okay...awwwww

Girl I had to look at my kid when I read about your girl! I don't even want to imagine going through that. Do you know if the daughter wants an abortion?

Lady J said...

@freaky... As far as the mother is concerned the girl does not have a say so in that choice. Yes I have had the talk time and time againg with her and we got it down pacted.

@lady... It's not her choice says her mother.

deepnthought said...

My heart really goes out to the momand lil girl. That is some heavy stuff.

awwww. the little one wanted to take care of mommy.

Lady J said...

@deep&southerngal... that is a very sad situation. I can remember being almost in that same situation. when I was younger I just thank God I had a supportive mother and father.

brooklyn babe said...

Make a great one this Holiday season!

Wishing U:

"a taste a heaven in 07, see U then!"

bK bAbE!

TTD said...

glad ur feeling better.. and that's so sweet of your daughter to want to take care of you..

i hope that i dont have to go thru what ur friend is... that's a tough/sad situation..