I usually don't blog twice in one day, but my girlfriend has a problem and she is asking for advice. I told her I will post it and see the comments my fellow bloggers make. Here goes: My girlfriend which we will call her Cherry. Cherry met this lady named Mary about 6 months ago and they became friends. Mary has a 17 year old son his name is Donny. Donny was so infatuated with Cherry, he started hitting on her. First it started off as innocent flirting then slowly but surly it became something else. I failed to mention that Cherry is 29 years old. So needless to say she started fucking the little boy (well to me he is not a man) prior to her having sex with him she already knew he was just getting over another young lady. He tried to kill himself because of it, but she proceeded with this relationship. It got to the point that they started telling each other they love each other. Mary tried to object but she knew once they started sexing it was nothing she could do about it. So Mary told Cherry if I have to choose it will be my son hands down. Anyway to make a extremly long story short now Cherry is tired of the little boy and wants to get rid of him and she don't know how cause he said without her he don't know what he will do. He even said he would commit suicide if his mother tried to break them up or he she left him. SHIT.
I need all the advice I can get feel free to ask question if you need a better understanding. Please leave ur comments and concerns so Cherry can get rid of her Problem. Thank You.
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You really want to be friends with someone like that? Cherry doesn't have the right to get rid of her "problem" so easily especially when it's her immaturity, thoughtlessness, and impulse control issues caused her to get into the "problem".
If Donny really is serious about hurting himself then Mary needs to get her son some help, maybe even an in-patient stay at a psych ward. What's to say he won't change his mind from committing suicide to a homicide/suicide and take your girl with him? Unless your girl wants to live with Donny's suicide on her hands then quitting him cold turkey probably isn't the way to go. The sex definitely needs to stop.
Mary needs to get off of her ass and take charge. Get that boy some help and cut off all ties with Cherry.
@freaky... I agree freaky if Mary would have intervined in the first place and stopped it when it was just flirting then I don't think it would have went that far.
Tell Cherry, that she fucked him now, she's stuck with him.
She should have known better... And this is coming from a brotha was fucking a 38 year old woman at age 17, and although he might have a man's equipment, his brain is underdeveloped and she should have not fucked the boy, now she done fucked his head up and just think she can throw him away like a used tampon, unfornately, life isn't like that.
And he's mama need that ass beat...
First off your friend Cherry needs help for the simple reason of getting down with a 17 year old. Donny also needs help if after being in a realtionship it gets broke off and he wants to committ suicide there is definetly a problem that needs to be dealt with immediately. However the way Cherry needs to deal with this situation is to simply talk to Donny and tell him that she had an attraction to him but it was just sexual although she really cares about him and all but it has to stop becasue he still has alot of growing up to do and he needs to be with someone around his own age.
I so agree with everyone. I think Donny should be put in in patient care. Cherry needs a big mama beatdown. Only thing I dont think is a good idea is for her to say something to him right now. There has to be a counselor or therapist, somebody has too step in. That really angers me, when we can ignore signs and hearts to get our rocks off. (please forgive my language). This pissed e off a little. I hav two 17 yearold nephews and I would personally beat the breaks of a sister nd then pray later. And Mary needs to be smacked upside her head, for bringing stuff like that into her space. Sorry to tak down about your friend Cherry, but she was wrong for letting a little boy thirst after her.
I have no suggestions. The woman knew what she was getting into before they started having sex. Therapy maybe? For the son that is. Since he is already predisposed to hurting himself over emotional issues, it may help to have a professional mediator to keep watch and help him through it...
No that I have read the other comments, I agree with them too!
@ emotinalbrotha, shereejoi, deepnthought, ladynay... All of you make a valid point. She realizes that it was her own sexual appitite that got her into this situation. Just like I told her she was the adult in the situation so there for had the control. She decided to wing him off slowly so it can seem like his decision to let her go.
I'm so sorry but Cherry needs her ass kicked-what would a grown ass woman see in a child and further more to act on!!! If I was Mary-somebody would be pulling my foot out of her ass!!
@tjeanise... Mary so fucking stupid and don't know how to take charge of her own house hold. I totally agree with you I told her even though u my girl that could not have been my fucking son.
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