Ladies you know how men are always complaining about women not working and being lazy and not participating in the finacial aspect of the relationship. They call us every name under the sun. Now what happens when you find a woman that don't mind working and helping out. Now she works to much. Men need to make up their minds. Not only do they accuse u of working to much they also accuse u of fucking everyone u work with. It is so nerve wrecking. I have men who don't want to date me because they say I work to much and dont' have enough time for him. Just like I tried to explain if I had someone I wouldn't have to work so hard. I would make time for him if he just gave me a chance.
How many people are happy to see egg on Ms New York face once again. That just goes to show pussy don't get you everything u want. If she would have just behaved like a lady and had some wits about herself she could have walked off with her Flav. I am proud of Deelyshis even though some things she did was a little questionable but she maintained and held out to get what she wanted. Even though they are not together now. That shit is so made for TV.
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Mannnnnnnnn this must be a Detriot thing. Most men I deal w/won't deal with a woman w/out a job.
You must be attractive or flirty to make your male friends think you sleep with your coworkers, that's their insecurity showing...
The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior (and current behavior for that matter). People always say that if so and so happens they'd do this or that. You say "men" as in plural so more than one person has told you it's a problem. If you're serious about making time for someone then cut back on the hours already and eliminate the problem, complaint, and excuse all in one stroke.
Most if the men I know wont date me because they say I have too much going on. I so agree with you.
@Ladynay... Thankyou I am attractive and yes I do flirt but men act to damn confused they don't know what they want. I would never cheat on anyone I am with. Never will never had.
@freaky... What is the purpose of cutting back if I am not sure they are going to stick around. If I knew for a fact that we could make it I would cut back. It would be no problem.
@deep... Thank you for understanding that sucks so much I have a lot to offer a man and yet still they treat me more like a liability than an asset. It's really depressing sometimes makes me feel like I will never find love.
@tsg... The reunion show I think they are gonna jump New York.
There are no guarantees in life. Sometimes if you want something you need to prepare yourself to be in a position to get what it is you want.
The men you deal with or want to deal with don't want to be something that you have to schedule in on your to-do list. You already know that men have a problem with your workload and subsequent lack of availability. I'm assuming none of the men have bought into your whole I'll change my schedule when I find a man line.
It appears that the men are already there, it's just on you to stop talking about it and be about it. The only thing you can guarantee or control is yourself. If you want to get past that argument then you alone have the power to end it. If you're happy with the results you're getting then keep doing what you're doing. If not, then do something else. It really is that simple.
@Freaky... thank you Dr. Phil oops I mean Freaky. Bottom line I need stabilbilty in my life I have no time for games and if I was to stop doing what I am doing then he is not there then what???? No time for the Bull shit.
Whatever. Then you do something else, of course.
For me, I have to admit that sometimes I do have a lot going on. But it also comes down to what you want. If you want to b with a woman then give her a real reason to adjust her schedule. Stop being a big baby. Why should she drop everything and you dont want her anyway.
After you get to know her then make demands. Dont go nto it saying I dont want to talk to you cause you aint got time for me. You never gave me a freaking chance, you rock head.
I also understand what Freaky is saying. You also have to decide what you want. You could make yourself seem availabe, to men if that person in paticular is who you want to get to know. Some times we have to ego stroke the man and let him think there is no competition. Career or otherwise.
i'm with ladynay, i don't think i've ever encountered a man who wouldn't date me because i worked too much. when i was just in grad school, guys would be like, "and that's all?"... *rolling my eyes* so, yeah, being gainfully employed is a def. turn on here in Atlanta.
I think Deelishes and New York are worthless hoes but that's just my humble opinion.
I was hooked on the show though, I ain't gonna lie! :-)
And yes I think men are generally indecisive creatures who don't know what they want and are full of contradictory behavior.
@DEEP... We are so on the same page here and like u I do understand what freaky is saying as well but b4 I drop things I got to know if it is a future in it.
@BB... I need to move to Atlanta lol
@Mistress... OH be nice to the hoes. lol and I totally agree they don't know what they want.
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